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Dana's
Story
It was on the eve of November 7th 2000,
when I got that awful news, that my husband had a Hodgkin's
lymphoma. I really don't recall being shocked and sad as much as I remember
telling my self to be strong, and so I was in front of him and in front of every
one! I was amazed at my self especially that we were five months Newlyweds! He
then underwent Chemotherapy and Radiotherapy sessions, and responded in a tremendous
way to therapy. A year after that I got pregnant, it was a shock, because we were
told that he may never be able to reproduce again, but the miracle happened. Of
course, I hurried to the clinic and got my self and the baby examined, but the
doctor told me that all was fine. Still, I was horrified that my baby might come
with a certain disability, so I went to the Cancer Therapy doctor and told him
my story; he recommended that I get an abortion, and wait for at least two years
before I think about getting pregnant. I was sad, but did what I had to do, and
registered at a local clinic for my abortion in May 21st 2002. A day after my
abortion, I cried the whole night, felt terrible at what happened, though it was
right, and now I'm still be waiting for the time I'll be pregnant again.. Dana January 2003
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"Depression
is oppression driven inward. We have to put it back out in the world where it
belongs, and transform it through art and collective action." - Rebecca
Rice
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